โIndia is a hard sell to Americans,โ the manager of New Delhiโs Imperial, one of the worldโs best luxury hotels, told us. Admiring the classical Raj interior, we didnโt understand why. He added, โTravelers from Europe, Asia, and even Latin America have been coming for decades, but Americans are hesitant.โ Weโre embarrassed to say that his observation, until recently, included us.
India is on the rise. As the worldโs 5th largest economy and most populous country, with 1.4 billion people, 52% of whom are under 30 years old, many economists and investors are looking at India as they did China 40 years ago.
First, letโs address a few basic questions you might have before considering a trip to India. Itโs a democracy, has a very educated English-speaking workforce, and a cohort of tech-savvy youth. Cell phones and debit cards work perfectly.
That said, this is a land of extremes. Sari-clad women walk miles carrying gathered firewood on their heads while others arrive at luxury hotels by helicopter.
Posh, high-rise developments in Delhi and Mumbai are sprouting up like mushrooms, making NYCโs Hudson Yards look like a Shaker village. Yet, many people are desperately poor. Cows and water buffalo wander freely through urban areas and graze on mounds of garbage. Roads, even those far out of town, are lined with decrepit stores, selling used tires, gas cannisters (for cooking), soft drinks, sugar cane juice extractors, and scooter repair services.
There is endless roadside trash. Outside the gate to our 5-star hotel was a cart selling dried cow dung patties for use as fuel. Unhelmeted families of 4 ride a single scooter. India is not yet Europe.
From early morning until late at night, a purposeful torrent of bodies heads somewhere by camel, foot, bicycle, scooter, tuk-tuk, car, bus, train, or jet. Vehicles signal their intention amid the pandemonium with relentless horn honking.
Instead of bristling against this cacophony, people are gentle and welcoming, possibly because spirituality is woven into every aspect of life, along with respect for family, tradition, and good deeds (to increase oneโs karma). For example, each morning, the first chapati (bread) baked is placed outside as an offering to a passing animal. Hinduism was repeatedly described to us as a way of life, not a religion. Small shrines to varying deities are everywhere.
Planning a Trip
It started with Admiral International Travel, an agency based out of Sarasota, Florida. Founder and CEO, Malaka Hilton, has decades of experience arranging tours around India. She told Worth, โWe invest the time to truly understand each travelerโtheir passions, pace, personal styleโand then convey these nuances to our trusted partners on the ground, ensuring that every moment feels thoughtfully curated, intuitive, and entirely their own.โ
Admiral is a member of Virtuoso, the leading global travel agency network specializing in experiential and luxury travel. The invitation-only organization is comprised of more than 1,200 travel agencies, primarily in the U.S. Travelers receive VIP services, room upgrades, and unique experiences. Virtuoso holds its partners to a high standard. Everything promised must be delivered.
Admiral and Virtuoso work with Shanti Kohli, Managing Director of Indiaโs Amber Tours. Kohliโs company was started by his well-connected father in 1972 when a friend, who happened to be a maharajah (prince), asked if he could arrange a tour for the maharajahโs friends, The Beatles.
Amber met us at the arrival gate in Delhi, escorted us through immigration and customs, and introduced us to Prem, our driver for the next two weeks. Amber reps greeted us in each new city. In other words, we were never adrift or fending for ourselves.
There is no detail too small, from endless hydration to hand towels after touring a temple to bug spray for evening tours, that hasnโt been anticipated. Our SUV was a cocoon, complete with food, drink, and air conditioning. We were on a magic carpet ride, free to experience a 5,000-year-old culture. (If driving isnโt your thing, flights are available between most cities.)
Which Cities Should You Visit?
According to Hilton, 95% of first-time visitors to India go to Rajasthan because of the significance of its sights, so we made it our focus. Hereโs a breakdown.

New Delhi
The governmental center of India holds numerous elegant, broad, tree-lined streets, along with many gardens, mosques, and Mughal tombs (the Mughals were a Muslim dynasty of Turkic-Mongol origin that ruled most of northern India from the 15-1700s). And just as there is no โone India,โ there is no โone Delhi.โ
Still jet-lagged, we were immediately overwhelmed by the architectural grandeur and beauty of the Jama Masjid, one of the largest, most striking, and historic mosques in India. But beyond its sweeping domes and red sandstone minarets, the mosque also drips with fraught political history. In 1919, it became a key site of resistance when Mahatma Gandhi addressed crowds protesting the Rowlatt Actโa British law that allowed civilian imprisonment without trial. Gandhi later returned to the mosque to fast in solidarity with the movement, and decades later, he would be assassinated here in Delhi. The site of his death is now a museum.
Leaving the mosque, our guide led us down a winding alley where we saw a working relic of the cityโs infrastructure, a centuries-old, fully functioning outdoor laundry, complete with a statue to the god of cleanliness.
Sikhs, a thread in the fabric of Indiaโs population, have an enormous temple in Delhi where thousands of people are served a free meal. Our insider tour of the vast kitchen reinforced our burgeoning understanding of the scale of this country.
The neighborhood of Old Delhi is what our cinema-driven imaginations thought India would be. Chaotic to the outsider, orderly to the participants who calmly navigate ancient, narrow, goods-packed streets with hand-pulled carts, bicycle rickshaws, and heavy loads on bent backs. Endless displays of brightly colored saris, foods (including milk being condensed in a charcoal-fired cauldron), spices, household goods, wedding iconography, handmade shoes, bangles, and gold-embroidered wedding dresses line the streets. Dogs sleep amongst the chaos. Everyone, except the dogs, was hard at work in 105-degree heat. Even as New Yorkers, used to the Lexington Ave subway at rush hour, we were impressed by this sea of humanity.
On the outskirts of the city is Noida, filled with an impressive number of glass-tower high rises and shopping malls. Since this is the future, Old Delhi may not be around in a decade or two.
Varanasi
Varanasi is a short flight from Delhi but, as the spiritual capital of India, itโs another world on so many levels. Hindu pilgrims visit the holy Ganges to bathe, make offerings, take samples home, and daily cremate hundreds on the riverbank. Witnessing these ceremonies from a boat was cause for reflection. Our guide, sensitive to the varying responses westerners have to this ritual, allowed us to absorb it within our comfort zone.
Every evening, local priests โput the lady Ganges to sleepโ in an elaborate multi-hour sight and sound extravaganza with chanting, fire, and offerings to the river. Thousands attend. Through Virtuoso, we were given a coveted privilege. Not only did we have chairs while others sat on the ground but we were also invited to participate in the ceremony by โfeedingโ the Ganges with an offering of milk and rose petals, while chanting and swirling incense.
As mentioned, crowds donโt faze us, but Varanasi at night makes Old Delhi seem sedate. Multitudes moveโon foot, rickshaws, bicycles, scootersโmany honking, all traveling in different directions without an inch of space between them. Amid this, vendors display their wares, and people somehow shop.
The next day, we visited a workshop Shanti sponsors, where abused women are offered a fresh start through the ancient art of hand-painting wooden objects.
Agra

In the late 18th century, Goethe wrote, โSee Naples and die.โ We doubt heโd been to the Taj Mahal, or he might have substituted this wonder of the world. Weโre moderately jaded travelers, but the Taj Mahal is the Taj Mahal. The architectural perfection is mesmerizing at dawn.
Serendipity had it that we were in Agra the night of a Hindu Amber employeeโs wedding. We were invited to join and watched the groom arrive with great pomp in a neon-lit, horse-drawn carriage.
Alwar
In selecting the itinerary, we put ourselves in the hands of Admiral and Amber, but were unsure when they chose this valley, in the middle of nowhere, between Agra and Jaipur.
โNowhereโ turns out to have magic at every turn. The main sights include a โcow dust tourโ and a largely intact, abandoned 16th-century town. Cow Dust, an early evening jeep tour in an adjacent valley, allowed us to watch the cows, sheep, and goats come home from grazing. Women in colorful saris sorted newly harvested wheat. The valley transported us back in time a thousand years. This was a highlight of our 2-week trip.
Bhangarth Fort was another Alwar essential sight. It felt like a mini-Angkor Wat or Machu Picchu. There were once 9,000 homes there, but it was abandoned for reasons that remain unknownโฆ. unless you accept our guideโs story of a beautiful princess, a sorcerer living on a hill, and an angry god who took the shape of a wrecking ball.
Jaipur
An hour and a half away is Jaipur, the โpink city,โ which is the capital of Rajasthan.
We were privileged to tour some of the private spaces in the City Palace, where the current Maharajah lives. Being on the Silk Route created immense wealth, which supported jewelry, rug weaving, and textile artisans (including hand block printing). These crafts remain in worldwide demand.
Amberโs connection allowed us to visit the factory of a 4th-generation jewelry maker so renowned that he wasnโt willing to share the names of the world-famous brands he fabricates for. We also got to tour the private Gyan Museum, housed on the top floor of this jewelry workshop. Worth a visit, it contains an eclectic but stunning amalgam of historical textiles, hookahs, miniature paintings, jewelry, and carpets.
Jodhpur

Jodhpur, the second largest city in Rajasthan, is a five-hour drive on a truck route west of Jaipur. Itโs not a pretty journey. From the Moghul era, Jodhpur has been known as โthe blue cityโ because Brahmans painted their homes this color as a sign to attackers they were the protected, religious class.
The extraordinarily imposing and ornate Mehrangarh Fort is the reason to visit. Perched on a summit, seemingly sprouting from the rock below, this sandstone former home of the local Maharajah is in excellent condition. Very smart curators have filled it with howdahs (royal elephant saddles), furniture, royal baby cradles, old doors, rugs, and miniature paintings. The royal meeting room echoes Versailles with its gold leaf, frescoes, and coffered ceilings.
Ranakpur Temple/Udaipur
As mentioned, drives can be long and not particularly scenic, but the five hours from Jodhpur to Udaipur are remarkable. Midway is the spiritually transfixing Ranakpur Temple, with its 1444 intricately carved marble pillars. A major Jain religious site, we were guided through the temple by the son of the head priest (an Amber perk), who encouraged us to remain for a few quiet minutes in meditation. The post-Ranakpur road to Udaipur is hilly and fertile. We glimpsed rural India, including a tribal wedding procession and oxen-powered water wheels.
Udaipur is the โgemโ of Rajasthan. With five 16th-century lakes, flowering trees, and clean streets, itโs home to the sprawling City Palace (another UNESCO World Heritage site, hotel, and current home of the monarch). Rajasthan is peppered with palaces. What makes Udaipur special are the lakes and islands.
Mumbai
Unless youโve experienced other sprawling Asian cities, Mumbaiโs scale doesnโt seem possible. Enormous luxury skyscrapers go on forever. Given Britainโs long influence, the city center has many imposing Victorian, Indo-Saracenic (Indian, Islamic, and Western blend), and Art Deco (the 2nd largest collection in the world) buildings. Itโs a walking city, much like any sophisticated European one, just with more traffic. Full of dichotomies, at dawn, beneath the luxury towers, men sit on the street collating newspapers for bicycle delivery, while the flower, produce, and outdoor fish markets are beehives of activity.

Where to Stay
Delhi
Delhiโs grand hotels, like the Imperial, Oberoi, and Leela are very different, but could each hold their own anywhere in the world.
We stayed at the Imperial, a classic Raj-style building from 1936, filled with period photos, antique furniture, and Indian art. Itโs justifiably legendary Asian restaurant, Spice Route, was imagined by one of Indiaโs leading designers.
The Oberoi, on the other hand, is sleek and modern. Refurbished in 2018, theyโre proud of having purified air in every room. Here you can sample an upscale interpretation of Delhi street food at Dhilli.
The Leela has Megu, one of Delhiโs best Japanese restaurants.
Varanasi
Built in 1782 as a guest house for a Maharajah, the Taj Nadesar Palace is a 14-room hotel that feels more like a secluded home.
Queen Elizabeth and Lord Mountbatten were both guests, and the hotel oozes history. Lord Mountbatten, the last Viceroy of British India, oversaw the 1947 Partition, which displaced over 10 million people. Todayโs royalty, i.e., business tycoons and politicians, enjoy the privacy the ample grounds provide.
Agra
The Oberoi Amarvilas is the only hotel with views of the Taj Mahal from every room. Like all Amarvilas, all details of this hotel and its extensive grounds have been curated to artistic perfection. From the pool, the grounds slope upward, showcasing water features and a meditation pavilion. A Hollywood set designer couldnโt have created a better Moghul palace. Itโs just a short golf-cart ride to the Taj Mahal for a dawn visit.

Alwar
The Amanbagh becomes part of the mystical experience of this valley. With only 37 rooms on 47 acres set behind 16th-century walls, the hotel is a sanctuary for peacocks, parakeets, and playful monkeys, one of whom stole fruit from our room.
In a nod to Moghul architecture, many of the free-standing suites have domed ceilings and private pools. True to all Amans, most of the staff are from the local village.
At night, the grounds are lit by hundreds of candles. The chef is passionate about serving local, organic food, and the extensive vegetable, ayurvedic (medicinal), and herb gardens are well utilized in his eclectic menu.
Jaipur
Located 30 minutes from Jaipurโs old city, the Oberoi Rajvilasโ 71 rooms meander over 32 acres with two 300-year-old buildings at the center, one of which still functions as a Hindu temple.
The rooms have a Raj feel (India meets English country). Evening entertainment features a 16th generation gypsy puppeteer, who captivated us with his skillful performance. For a once-in-a-lifetime experience, consider booking the Kohinoor Villa, a private compound.
Your Hotel: The Key to a Great Trip
Itโs crucial to know that, unlike travel to other countries, hotels are the key to a positive experience traveling in India. They provide a sanctuary from the throbbing crowds and heat, plus guaranteed safe food and drink.
Our luxury accommodations often sprawled over dozens of manicured acres. The โpalaceโ hotels really were, or are, royal residences. Spacious hotel pools and numerous fountains honor the cultural love of water. At the 5-star level, India has perfected hotel culture. The service, amenities, finishings, and furnishings are opulent perfection.
Mumbai
Located on the historic waterfront, Mumbaiโs Taj Palace was Indiaโs first grand hotel. Built in 1904 with an impressive Victorian architectural influence and a soaring 5-story dome, this 285-room, antique-filled hotel has hosted the worldโs luminaries, including British royalty, Hollywood A-listers, and even Ravi Shankar, who actually lived in the hotel. It remains an iconic experience.
Across the narrow peninsula lies the Oberoi Mumbai. This modern glass tower with a 20-story central atrium is for guests seeking a luxury minimalist experience. Our most unique culinary experience was at Ziya, their modern Indian restaurant. Put yourself in Michelin-starred, celebrity chef Vineet Bhatiaโs hands. You wonโt be disappointed.
Everyone goes to Jaipur for the UNESCO World Heritage Amber Palace and the Hawa Mahal (an ornate, pink, multi-story screen where the women of the court watched the world pass by). The Palace was once the royal residence.
Jodhpur
The Umaid Bhawan Palace, managed by Taj, is perhaps the ultimate fantasy accommodation. Constructed between 1929 and 1944, one wing is still the residence of the royal family.
The massive, 347-room (none of which are identical) red sandstone palace is set on a hilltop amid 26 acres. There is a spacious outdoor pool, a whimsically tiled indoor pool, formal gardens, tennis courts, and an award-winning collection of antique cars. Dining is limited to hotel guests. Even a jaded world traveler will be impressed by the scale and opulence of this palace.
Udaipur

Being a popular tourist destination, there are a number of good hotels, but the best are the Oberoi Udaivilas and the Udaipur Taj Lake Palace.
They are also a study in contrasts. The former, on 22 verdant, sloping acres, contains an old hunting lodge and has 89 rooms and suites, many with private or shared pools. Most offer stunning lake and City Palace views. Traditional music and dance provide nightly entertainment.
The Taj Lake Palace is much smaller. Built on an island in 1646 as the Maharajahโs summer home, it still contains the original tile, glass, and inlay work. Access is by private boat. Romantic and filled with history, there are three lovely restaurants. Bhairo, the intimate rooftop venue should be booked in advance.
The Lasting Takeaway
We were constantly aware of the role of spirituality in everyday life. Occasionally, we were overwhelmed by the scope of the countryโs history. Luckily, our guides throughout were helpful, articulate, highly knowledgeable, and interesting people. They were also windows into modern India.
Our immersion into Indian culture was so fascinating and rewarding that midway through, we started to plan our next trip, to southern India, which weโre told is completely different, but no less intriguing.