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Opportunities & Exposures: Industry
Wise to the Words
Chelsea Hardaway and Jon Warshawsky
07/01/2005

The listener hears this spiel and figures it must be a smoke screen. The speaker must not really know what he is talking about. Beyond jargon, the Obscurity Trap also includes evasiveness—that is, the businessperson’s obsession with avoiding anything specific. Ask someone in HR whether he likes chocolate ice cream, and he will tell you there is room for all kinds of flavors in any ice cream parlor, and that it is all the different flavors working together that unleash the ice cream parlor’s global competitive advantage.

The Hard Sell Trap
ACME Widgets, the world’s leading widget supplier, announces a new bleeding-edge, evidence-based, high-quality solution.

For some reason, when we get to the office we are in constant sales mode—about our company, about our initiatives, about our products and about our performance. But everyone knows everything is not always perfect. And the epidemic of good news, positive spin and self-aggrandizing actually works against us.

People hate to be sold to, but they love to buy. They like to look at all the data and draw their own conclusions, so all the back-patting and chronic spin actually backfires. It does not make anyone like us more to know that we think we have done a good job. In fact, it makes them like us less. Better to crawl into the listener’s mind, paint the picture in terms that are meaningful to him and let him draw his own conclusions.

The fallout from all this obscurity, evasiveness and hard sell is a growing sense of outrage. When the verbal dust settles, the audience has not learned anything, and they have had ample time to think about other things—like how annoying it is that the speaker thinks we are going to sift through all this bull.

We all want leaders who can capture our imagination, stir our enthusiasm and tell us the truth. To capture the ears of everyone in the room, short-circuit that 50-page PowerPoint presentation and instead tell a memorable five-minute story. Skip the kumbaya session and cut right to the nasty problem that everyone already knows about.

Chelsea Hardaway and Jon Warshawsky are coauthors of Why Business People Speak Like Idiots and cocreators of www.fightthebull.com.

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