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Fighting Words
Moderated by Emily Denitto
09/01/2007

Worth: Do you find people trying to conceal their wealth?
Marvin: Sure.
Riesel: And how easy is it to find assets that have been cleverly concealed?
Schaefer: Boy, if somebody really wants to do it to you, and they have enough time . . . .

Worth: How do you go about uncovering that?
Marvin: You have to do the tracing routine. We have it, even in a small office like mine. I have a very brilliant woman who’s a former Big 8 tax partner. And she’s full time.
Riesel: You need someone who will look at the assets in each of your cases to see if there’s been a fall off.
Schaefer: Precisely. We do an analysis; I’m sure all of us do the same thing. You look at the income, the expenses, the assets. If there’s an unusual gap, you start searching.
Spiegel: One of the evolving areas is electronic discovery. It’s just really beginning, and it’s going to be enormously expensive. I’ve heard stories in a corporate litigation context—millions of dollars are being spent. It’s just a matter of time until that’s going to get into family law.

"I AM not a big proponent of premarital agreements for young people who are getting married today." —Morton E. Marvin

Worth
: What does that mean, exactly?
Spiegel: It means going in, getting court orders authorizing you to go through not only my email, but [my spouse’s] email for the last three years, and all kinds of issues.

Worth: How does that affect how you counsel your clients?
Spiegel: Often, especially in custody cases, people are so polarized they can’t talk, so they’re emailing everything to each other. I tell them, "Make sure that you expect a judge is going to read that email." I often edit their emails on a regular basis. You’d be amazed what goes on, what they put in email when they don’t get that type of advice, and it’s going to end up in front of the judge at some point. No thought is given to: What if somebody looks at this?
Schaefer: About 80 percent of the time, we can talk until we’re blue in the face and give them the best advice the four of us could muster, and they’re going to ignore us anyway.

Worth: Well, it’s so emotional.
Spiegel: People who don’t communicate well in a bad marriage expect that, all of a sudden, they’re separated, they’re at war and their communications are going to improve.
Marvin: A lot of the damage is done before they even come to see us—the emails between girlfriends and boyfriends, those kinds of things. We just have to tell them that these could be subject to discovery.
Riesel: Cell phone records. They’re often a killer.
Schaefer: Someone once asked me, "What do you think is the greatest source of business nowadays?" I said the BlackBerry and email.
Marvin: And it’s all retrievable, everything . . . and now the photographs.
Schaefer: I’ve got one that, if it ever hits the newspaper, it will trip Detroit upside down. What these people sent back and forth to each other, you wouldn’t want to look at. There’s nothing really particularly provocative about it, unless you’re a first-year medical student. And this is one of the highest-placed executives in the country.
Spiegel: One of the things I’ve learned to tell people is: Don’t inadvertently destroy any of that stuff, because if you do, you can create some major problems. You can lose things on the computer when you don’t want to. If that happens, you can be subject to accusation that you destroyed it.

"I’M SEEING more of a scorch-the-earth mentality—people who just don’t care if nothing’s left. Let it all go to the lawyers." —Lance S. Spiegel

Worth
: You mentioned trusts and the role that they can play. Do you ever find that the older generation will establish, say, a generation-skipping trust in advance? Or what’s the timing in terms of what’s allowed?
Schaefer: If it’s a legitimate trust created by a nonparty to the divorce action, that is what it is. The court is bound by that. If it’s really an irrevocable trust set up for legitimate tax purposes or estate planning, the court’s bound by that. Our court says that if it’s a trust, it’s irrevocable and you’re a beneficiary of it, to the extent that you have access to that trust’s books and records, you have to disclose them.
Spiegel: The cash flow from a trust is up for grabs as far as child and spousal support in California. There’s a recent case in California that said that recurring, regular patterns of gifts from parents could be treated as though it’s income.

Worth: What does that mean, recurring patterns?
Schaefer: It would be similar to a situation if you had a lawyer who’d been making half a million dollars a year and he said, "I can’t practice anymore, I’m 45 years old and I can only make $50,000 a year." It’s likely the court would impute the $450,000 a year of income to him for the purposes of support and alimony.
Riesel: The courts will do the same with this regular and consistent gift that parents or grandparents have given the spouse during the course of the marriage. If it suddenly dries up, the courts are very suspicious.
Spiegel: It’s really unfair in that the parent may want to make it in the context of an intact marriage, when some of that money is going to the benefit of the grandchildren. But now the supported spouse has got a new significant other, living with somebody else, remarried and this money is going to the benefit of him or her.
Marvin: I think it’s also generational. Today’s generation is much more involved. With really significant wealth, you have the family offices that look after all family members.
Spiegel: It’s also highly, highly likely that grandparents of this generation have been touched by divorce. It’s not like 80 years or 50 years ago, where it happened to other people.
Marvin
: Oftentimes the first suggestion of a prenup doesn’t come from the parties who are getting married or their immediate family, but as was said, an office manager calls and says, "OK, we got so-and-so ready to do your prenup." "Well, what do you mean?" "Well, we’re not going to allow anybody to see the books and records of our company." And then that starts everything spinning.
Riesel: I think you put your finger on an issue that families of wealth have to deal with: It’s not only at the time of the divorce that assets are going to be divided. They’re going to have to let the spouse’s forensics come into the family business or their own business and muck about in their books in an effort to put a value on it. There are huge issues the business owner faces at the time of the divorce.
Spiegel: The business can be held hostage. Key employees can be tied up. Often that’s used as leverage to try to extract a settlement. Trade secrets can be exposed.
Marvin: You’re required to sign a lot of confidentiality agreements now, which we never used to do. The problem with those is that they are supposed to be signed by whomever you’re outsourcing these things to. And there are more and more people who are seeing these things; if you sign the confidentiality, you get to see the books and records of the ABC Corp. Not even the IRS has ever seen those books.

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